Matthew 14:13-21

Our Gospel reading today follows on from the events of the beheading of St John the Baptist which we looked at on Saturday. It starts with the words 'When Jesus received the news of John the Baptist's death he withdrew by boat to a lonely place where they could be by themselves'. Jesus was upset and was grieving. Like any of us at the loss of a dear friend, he needed time and space to process the news: it was impossible for Jesus in his full humanity to live and to love without experiencing grief. So he went off to a lonely place.

At such circumstances, we want to be alone but at the same time have helpful companionship in our aloneness. It was the same with Christ. He went off alone, but was accompanied by the disciples. They joined him in His solitary grief and probably just sat there with him, simply being there for him. I think especially nowadays, when we seem to have a quick problem-solving attitude towards everything, and when grief comes along, the time and space that we need are not always given. Nothing new there, I guess, as we read in our Gospel passage: the crowds came flooding to Christ, cutting short his opportunity to grieve.

Our painting, titled 'The Wedding Dress', by Frederick Elwell, shows a young woman dressed in black, kneeling on the floor of a dark bedroom next to an open chest. On the floor lies her white satin wedding dress and the white shoes she wore (or perhaps planned to wear?) on her wedding day. The woman is obviously grieving deeply, but the context isn't entirely clear. Can we assume that her husband or husband-to-be has died? Perhaps she is putting her wedding dress away, closing a chapter of her life? The bed she shared with her husband is now empty. It is a powerful painting conveying loss and grief...